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		<title>But is it, really?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a recovering &#8220;it is what it is&#8221; person.  I mean, I kind of think some things are just fate &#8211; bad weather delays my flight; well, &#8216;it is what it is&#8217;.  You can&#8217;t fight city hall.  Shit happens.  Whatever.  Now this is all well and good if you are a fatalist about life.  [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dobettermarketing.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6170646&amp;post=3&amp;subd=dobettermarketing&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a recovering &#8220;it is what it is&#8221; person.  I mean, I kind of think some things are just fate &#8211; bad weather delays my flight; well, &#8216;it is what it is&#8217;.  You can&#8217;t fight city hall.  Shit happens.  Whatever.  Now this is all well and good if you are a fatalist about life.  Or, said another way and a little less politely, if you like to play the victim.</p>
<p>But really, is it what it is?  Does it have to be that way?  Do I have to accept that my kids just wont call as cerfew approaches?  That the snow white cat will snooze on my black sweater whenever I don&#8217;t put it away (the sweater, not the cat)?  That I&#8217;ll get bad service from my rental car company?  C&#8217;est la vie?  Really?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m over it.  As a died-in-the-wool passionate marketer, all I do all day is try to figure out how to improve businesses and brands.  So how about improving all of the other facets of life?  How about taking it personally?</p>
<p>Can you believe in both &#8216;fate&#8217; and &#8216;will&#8217; in different parts of your life?  For one, I&#8217;m tired of it.  I like this Ann Frank quote: &#8220;How wonderful it is that nobody has to wait a single moment before starting to improve the world&#8221;</p>
<p>I work with a guy who has been through most of the levels of hell and back.  You know what his life philosophy is?  To try to leave people he meets a little happier.  That&#8217;s it.  That&#8217;s big.</p>
<p>Maybe it really is what it is, but for sure it can be better!</p>
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